Unmotivated to motivate

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I’m not exactly unmotivated, but I am struggling. I am a volunteer and supporter of a non-profit organization, the +ME project, that strives to build confidence in youth through personal storytelling. Every March they host a week-long event called Motivational March, during which volunteers share their own stories of mentors and motivators with local high school students. While I support in other capacities, this will be my first time doing this event.

Tonight I’m supposed to attend the practice session, but I haven’t finished my homework. One of the prompts is to tell about a time when you were motivated to accomplish something and why, specifically during your teen years. As I sit here racking my brains for a story, all I can think of are times when I was motivated by an “I’ll show you” attitude. For example, when I became of age to legally work and get a real paycheck, not just under-the-table cash, my mom said to me, “Good luck finding a job that’s not fast food.” Her doubt became my fire. I applied anywhere and everywhere, so long as it didn’t involve fast food. My persistence paid off and I landed a job at Marie Callendar’s. It wasn’t fast food and it involved pies, so a real win-win. It’s not a story of a mentor who imparted some wisdom or modeled a motivated life that got me going, but one of a rebel with (or without) a cause.

But what message does my story reveal to my teenage audience? I’m not sure, but I hope I find one!

8 responses to “Unmotivated to motivate”

  1. arjeha Avatar

    Maybe in a broad sense it is a story of a mentor. Maybe your mom knew that a challenge like this was what you needed to do better than fast food work. Reverse psychology?

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  2. Linda&Greg Avatar

    I do think the “I’ll show you” is a form of motivation. It’s taking a negative attitude and turning INTO the motivation you need to get going.

    I think this organization sounds like a much needed thing. Good luck with it!

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  3. franmcveigh Avatar

    When I went back to grad school full time , it was because of a poor admin Many lived this person. They didn’t see rhe side of how women were treated. I literally took every single class to see if the admins were taught to behave this way. Fortunately, they were not, but the good old boys” network caused a lot of anxiety.

    your story works … in spite of circumstances, rising above …

    valid motivation

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  4. Leigh Anne Eck Avatar
    Leigh Anne Eck

    Motivation is such a tricky thing, and I wish more of my students would grasp this concept a little better. I would have to think a little longer on something that motivated me as a teenager…or even what motivates me now!

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  5. Trish Avatar
    Trish

    Give me a naysayer every time. That motivates me. I am fiercely competitive and do not like to hear that I won’t be able to do something. The opposite is also true. When I want respect because I value someone’s opinion, then I can be highly motivated. Maybe that’s what lay deeply beneath your quest that got you the Callendar gig; you wanted your mom’s admiration?!

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  6. Celia Fisher Avatar

    Maybe it’s something to do with being determined and positive in the face of apparent negativity which every teenager is going to come up against many times in their lives? You could have just accepted what your mum said and gone along with it. I think it’s all part of building confidence in oneself.

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  8. Lainie Levin Avatar
    Lainie Levin

    For me, it was when I told my mom I was going to try out for Show Choir (yes, I’m one of those):

    “Well…they dance a little more than you do, don’t they, Helaine?”

    I made the choir. Spite, as it turns out, is a powerful motivator =)

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