Could you just shhh…

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I fear I’m getting more curmudgeonly as I age.

Going to the Hollywood Bowl during the summer is one of those things that make me grateful to be a Southern Californian. Nothing like packing a picnic, riding the Park and Ride bus up the hill, and enjoying an evening of music outdoors. It almost doesn’t matter what the performance is. It’s such a magical venue.

Last week, my husband and I went to the Bowl to see the LA Philharmonic and Harry Connick, Jr. perform for the July Fourth Fireworks Spectacular. The evening started out spectacularly. We forgot to buy Park and Ride tickets in advance and just showed up at the stop without knowing the schedule. We made it just as the next bus was loading. Then we were able to grab one of the last open spots on the grass at the very top to enjoy our dinner. Once it got close to show time, we found our seats and they were almost smack dab in the middle.

But then, it started. The inconsiderate behavior. The man sitting on the other side of me continued his loud conversation even as the conductor began speaking. The introduction of quiet music didn’t stop him and when the music got louder so did he. A family of late comers arrived a couple of rows behind us. Rather than slipping into their seats discreetly, they very indiscreetly announced, “Better late than never!” While Harry Connick, Jr. played a beautiful piece on the piano, a woman a few rows back asked, “Is he going to sing us some songs?”

Cue internal screaming. I understand it’s an outdoor concert, but none of this would happen at Walt Disney Hall where the LA Phil regularly plays. I try not to get too grumpy, but scenes like this seem to occur more and more frequently. Or maybe it’s always been like this and I just notice it more. *sigh* Either way, I’m going to have to have an attitude adjustment or the joy of going to the Bowl is going to be replaced with silent seething.

14 responses to “Could you just shhh…”

  1. kimhaynesjohnson Avatar

    I think we can be friends. We are cut from the same cloth. I often threaten to “go teacher” on people when they make me want to nut up, and I think I would have nutted up. You are not alone in your expectations for people to actually behave and show respect.

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    1. vivian chen Avatar

      Oof, the energy it takes to not “go teacher”!

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  2. Juliette Awua-Kyerematen Avatar
    Juliette Awua-Kyerematen

    Vivian, changing your attitude when something annoying happens helps you. I’m glad you made it to that place of trying to find peace regardless of all the disturbance around you.

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    1. vivian chen Avatar

      I’m working on getting to that place Juliette! LOL

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  3. arjeha Avatar

    Some people just are inconsiderate and have no manners. It is all about them and no one else matters. Sorry your enjoyable evening was ruined by a few “entitled ” spectators.

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    1. vivian chen Avatar

      Sad that this seems to be true. more often these days.

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  4. Lakshmi Bhat Avatar

    Such people are irritating but as you said we have to try and adjust and adjusting to such behaviour is difficult.

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    1. vivian chen Avatar

      It’s a challenge!

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  5. franmcveigh Avatar

    Oh, my. That’s me, too. I’m shocked, okay, disappointed that folks don’t go to events to LISTEN to the event, but instead prattle LOUDLY on about their lives.

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    1. vivian chen Avatar

      At another concert, the couple next to us talked for a good amount of time about Subway sandwiches. LOL.

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  6. Trish Avatar
    Trish

    Okay, I guess I’m getting more “curmudgeonly” too. I would have been giving those looks that my work as a substitute teachers has perfected. The “if looks could kill” adage seems like a worthy weapon in this case of discourtesy—outdoor venue or not!

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    1. vivian chen Avatar

      If I could only be so brave!

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  7. Elisabeth Ellington Avatar

    How odd to go to all of the trouble of getting there for a concert and then to talk all the way through it! It seems that perhaps a different activity might have been preferable for those who preferred to visit with each other!

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    1. vivian chen Avatar

      Seriously!

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